I did not think I was going to be writing so much about our crazy journey into parenthoo, but I actually found it therapeutic for me. Mia was discharged from the hospital after 10 days on oxygen and a feeding tube. We were in Durham for 3 months until the trial was set up at Hasbro. Mia was sitting up at 8 1/2 months, her heart slowly improved, she had (and still does have)very low antibodies to the treatment. We knew she was responding to treatment. Amongst many ups and downs (fortunately more ups), Mia has had the feeding tube removed, she has normal heart function, and contunues to improve in gross and fine motor activities and speech.
Her progress is ongoing. Although we do not know what the future holds for Mia, we have so much reason to be hopeful as new research is on the horizon, even a cure. We pray to see the cure in Mia's lifetime. Thank you to all who have helped make this event a success and all those who have donated. Cannot wait to see you all tomorrow!
Friday, July 9, 2010
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Happy Half-Birthday, Mia!
Well, today is officially Mia's half-birthday. Five years ago, on this day, she had been in the hospital for 3 days. Testing was going as planned. I was told that Mia could NOT get sick in order for her to respond well to treatment. Her first infusion was scheduled for this day. On the night of the 6th, we decided that I needed a break from the hosital as I had not left since she was admitted. Sean was going to spend the night so I could get a good-night's sleep at the hotel.
The phone rang at 5am the morning of the 7th. Sean said that Mia had a temp of 106, get to the hospital ASAP. I had never heard of such a high temp. My father drove as my body was so numb with fear. I really thought I was going to lose her this day.
I got to the hospital. The nurse rechecked her temp, 103. Still high, but not as insane as 106. After a full workup, nothing came of it and her temp broke. Dr Kishnani came and assesed her. She said we could go foward with the infusion. She tolerated it well with no reactions. This day Mia turned 6 months old was her second chance at life making July 7th, her half-birthday, a significant day for all of us.
For those of you who may remember, five years ago today were the London bombings. There were also tornado warnings in Durham. After the fever and these 2 events, Dr Kishnani came in the room satisfied and called it an "uneventful day." I beg to differ, but was happy to see she was pleased.
BTW, Sean has NEVER spent an overnight with her in the hospital since this event.
The phone rang at 5am the morning of the 7th. Sean said that Mia had a temp of 106, get to the hospital ASAP. I had never heard of such a high temp. My father drove as my body was so numb with fear. I really thought I was going to lose her this day.
I got to the hospital. The nurse rechecked her temp, 103. Still high, but not as insane as 106. After a full workup, nothing came of it and her temp broke. Dr Kishnani came and assesed her. She said we could go foward with the infusion. She tolerated it well with no reactions. This day Mia turned 6 months old was her second chance at life making July 7th, her half-birthday, a significant day for all of us.
For those of you who may remember, five years ago today were the London bombings. There were also tornado warnings in Durham. After the fever and these 2 events, Dr Kishnani came in the room satisfied and called it an "uneventful day." I beg to differ, but was happy to see she was pleased.
BTW, Sean has NEVER spent an overnight with her in the hospital since this event.
Sunday, July 4, 2010
This day in 2005 - Off to Duke
Picking up where I left off, we had to work out the logistics of getting Mia to NC safely. The day after we made our decision, Mia was admitted to Hasbro overnight for more tests. We had to get her on a flight that had an oxygen tank (not as easy as it should be). We needed to find a place to stay, work with social workers, insurance, local doctors and the medical team at Duke, etc.
Sean and his brother drove to NC on the 3rd so we could have our car. My father, Mia, I had flights booked for the 4th. The morning of the 4th, I got a call from the airline saying they forgot the oxygen tank in Newark and we had to change our flight. In despiration and anger, I totally lost it on the man stating the urgency of the situation as we were flying to NC to admit my daughter to the hospital. After a FRANTIC morning trying to resolve this issue (I will spare you the details), we made it to Duke by the end of the day.
Saying goodbye to my family was very emotional as I was leaving behind my support and strength. Fortunately, everyone in the family took turns flying down which allowed us to have someone helping us out most of the time.
By this time, I was ready to get started, I was no longer scared.
(The attached picture was taken by my Dad at the airport)
Sean and his brother drove to NC on the 3rd so we could have our car. My father, Mia, I had flights booked for the 4th. The morning of the 4th, I got a call from the airline saying they forgot the oxygen tank in Newark and we had to change our flight. In despiration and anger, I totally lost it on the man stating the urgency of the situation as we were flying to NC to admit my daughter to the hospital. After a FRANTIC morning trying to resolve this issue (I will spare you the details), we made it to Duke by the end of the day.
Saying goodbye to my family was very emotional as I was leaving behind my support and strength. Fortunately, everyone in the family took turns flying down which allowed us to have someone helping us out most of the time.
By this time, I was ready to get started, I was no longer scared.
(The attached picture was taken by my Dad at the airport)
Monday, June 28, 2010
Five Years Ago, the hardest decision I have ever had to make
This time of year is always a big time of reflection for me, especially as this year is 5 years since Mia was diagnosed. After Mia was diagnosed with Pompe Disease and we were told of the trial, we felt so hopeful that Mia may be OK, at least I thought so initially. As we tried to absorb so much information, many questions went through my head. Perhaps this medicine MAY help her, but at what cost to her QUALITY of life? How painful are the procedures? Are there side effects? Will we be prolonging the inevitable? Will she be alive, but dependant on artificial ventillation to breathe and have limited movement? These questions went on and on.
Tomorrow will be five years since we first spoke to the most AMAZING Nurse Practitioner at Duke University Medical Center. Prior to this call, I had my family over the house as they helped me come up with a list of questions to discuss with the NP. It was such an overwhelming time, I needed as much support from everyone around me. I needed as many ears listening to what the NP discussed with us as Sean and I could only absorb so much. We essentially had two options. The first would be to be aggressive and treat her by enrolling her in the trial. The second would be to keep Mia comfortable, get Hospice involved and enjoy the little time we had left with her. I made it very clear to the family that whatever Sean and I decided to do, I hoped they would support our decision.
Our conference call began at 1130am. We asked all our questions and felt comfortable making our decision. It was decided that Mia was a good candidate for this trial, the side effects were minimal, and treatment could be stopped at any time if we felt that she was in pain or that her quality of life was not what we felt she deserved. As scarey as it was, we decided to pack our bags, leave our jobs, and move to NC and give Mia her second chance at life. Thank you to our friends and family, without the emotional and financial support, I do not think this would have been possible.
We were anticipating flying out to NC on the 4th of July, giving us very little time to make so many arrangements. First, Mia's Baptism was scheduled for July 10th, but we would be in NC by then. I called the church, it was the first time I cried that day. The poor receptionist, I told her I needed to cancel Mia's Baptism and reschedule ASAP as she was very sick. She spoke to the priest and told me he would be at the house in 20 minutes. It was not part of our original plan (I guess like everything else since Mia was born), but Mia was baptised on our kitchen table. It worked out perfectly as the family was already at our house. We all looked terrible, exhaused. Mia, on the other hand, looked beautiful in her white gown. It amazed me that a child who looked so healthy was so sick.
Tomorrow will be five years since we first spoke to the most AMAZING Nurse Practitioner at Duke University Medical Center. Prior to this call, I had my family over the house as they helped me come up with a list of questions to discuss with the NP. It was such an overwhelming time, I needed as much support from everyone around me. I needed as many ears listening to what the NP discussed with us as Sean and I could only absorb so much. We essentially had two options. The first would be to be aggressive and treat her by enrolling her in the trial. The second would be to keep Mia comfortable, get Hospice involved and enjoy the little time we had left with her. I made it very clear to the family that whatever Sean and I decided to do, I hoped they would support our decision.
Our conference call began at 1130am. We asked all our questions and felt comfortable making our decision. It was decided that Mia was a good candidate for this trial, the side effects were minimal, and treatment could be stopped at any time if we felt that she was in pain or that her quality of life was not what we felt she deserved. As scarey as it was, we decided to pack our bags, leave our jobs, and move to NC and give Mia her second chance at life. Thank you to our friends and family, without the emotional and financial support, I do not think this would have been possible.
We were anticipating flying out to NC on the 4th of July, giving us very little time to make so many arrangements. First, Mia's Baptism was scheduled for July 10th, but we would be in NC by then. I called the church, it was the first time I cried that day. The poor receptionist, I told her I needed to cancel Mia's Baptism and reschedule ASAP as she was very sick. She spoke to the priest and told me he would be at the house in 20 minutes. It was not part of our original plan (I guess like everything else since Mia was born), but Mia was baptised on our kitchen table. It worked out perfectly as the family was already at our house. We all looked terrible, exhaused. Mia, on the other hand, looked beautiful in her white gown. It amazed me that a child who looked so healthy was so sick.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
The SECOND worst day of my life
May 16, 2005 being the WORST day of my life, was a day that every parent fears. I knew something was not right with my daughter as she had feeding difficulties and was not gaining weight. Upon her pediatrician detecting a heart murmur, she was referred to a cardiologist. An EKG and echocardiogram were done. After much waiting, and waiting, and waiting, the cardiologist returned with about 6 or 7 other staff including other doctors, nurses and social workers. I knew I was about to hear bad news. Mia's heart was severely enlarged and in failure. The doctor did not know why, but she prepared me for the worst as the prognosis of a heart in her condition is grim. I cannot even begin to explain how I felt, so I will not even attempt. Nothing can prepare you for such news. Mia was admitted into the hospital for a full metabloic workup to find out what was causing her heart issues. I was also told that 80% of the time when a child has cardomyopathy, they do not find the primary cause of the heart issues.
Almost 6 weeks later, we followed up with the cardiologist. When I arrived, the doctor told me that she had a diagnosis for Mia. She asked me to call my husband and have him come so she can discuss everything with both of us. I called Sean at work and told him to meet me at the office. This was the scariest moment of my life (well, up to this point, more came later).
Tomorrow, June 24th, will be five years ago that I first heard the words, "Your daughter has Pompe Disease." The only information that I knew of this disease was that it was fatal usually in the first year of life. I was told there was an experimental medicine showing some promise. Sounded easy enough, not quite.
This was an IV infusion that Mia would have to receive every other week. We needed to go to Duke University Medical Center to enroll her in the trial. It would take several months for the trial to be set up so that Mia could receive it locally. So much information was thrown at us, it was hard to comprehend it all.
We took Mia home and tried to absorb so much new information. We realized that life was about to forever change, no idea what to expect. We were thrown some hope and we hung on for dear life.
Almost 6 weeks later, we followed up with the cardiologist. When I arrived, the doctor told me that she had a diagnosis for Mia. She asked me to call my husband and have him come so she can discuss everything with both of us. I called Sean at work and told him to meet me at the office. This was the scariest moment of my life (well, up to this point, more came later).
Tomorrow, June 24th, will be five years ago that I first heard the words, "Your daughter has Pompe Disease." The only information that I knew of this disease was that it was fatal usually in the first year of life. I was told there was an experimental medicine showing some promise. Sounded easy enough, not quite.
This was an IV infusion that Mia would have to receive every other week. We needed to go to Duke University Medical Center to enroll her in the trial. It would take several months for the trial to be set up so that Mia could receive it locally. So much information was thrown at us, it was hard to comprehend it all.
We took Mia home and tried to absorb so much new information. We realized that life was about to forever change, no idea what to expect. We were thrown some hope and we hung on for dear life.
Friday, June 4, 2010
Fundraising Event for Mia
On Saturday, July 10, friends and family of Mia Hanley, a 5-year-old girl living with Pompe Disease, along with the management at Texas Roadhouse in Cranston, will host a day filled with family fun and hot cars.
Diagnosed with the rare form of Muscular Dystrophy at just six months, Mia is lucky to be alive today thanks to an extensive treatment she receives twice a month. The proceeds from this event will help with Mia's expenses related to her illness as well as fund research at Duke University dedicated to find a cure for Pompe.
This event is also celebrating Mia's 1/2 Birthday which is July 7th. The day Mia turned 6 months old, she received her first infusion. This was her second chance at life marking it a very significant day in her life. As she turns 5 1/2, we will celebrate five years since her first infusion.
Please join us between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. at the Texas Roadhouse in Cranston as we raise money for this beautiful little girl. Along with the dozens of show cars on hand, the event will also include face painting, a bounce house, an appearance by Ariel the Little Mermaid and crafts for the kids; Cranston Police vehicles, including the Mobile Command Unit; an information tent dedicated to educating the public about Pompe disease raffle prizes, a bake sale and much more!
Vendor tables will also be on set up and will include representatives from Lia Sophia Jewelry, the Pampered Chef and Stitch Me This. If you are interested in renting vendor space, contact Melissa Loiselle.
Please save the date for this event, tell your friends and help us spread the word about Mia's Miracle!
Diagnosed with the rare form of Muscular Dystrophy at just six months, Mia is lucky to be alive today thanks to an extensive treatment she receives twice a month. The proceeds from this event will help with Mia's expenses related to her illness as well as fund research at Duke University dedicated to find a cure for Pompe.
This event is also celebrating Mia's 1/2 Birthday which is July 7th. The day Mia turned 6 months old, she received her first infusion. This was her second chance at life marking it a very significant day in her life. As she turns 5 1/2, we will celebrate five years since her first infusion.
Please join us between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. at the Texas Roadhouse in Cranston as we raise money for this beautiful little girl. Along with the dozens of show cars on hand, the event will also include face painting, a bounce house, an appearance by Ariel the Little Mermaid and crafts for the kids; Cranston Police vehicles, including the Mobile Command Unit; an information tent dedicated to educating the public about Pompe disease raffle prizes, a bake sale and much more!
Vendor tables will also be on set up and will include representatives from Lia Sophia Jewelry, the Pampered Chef and Stitch Me This. If you are interested in renting vendor space, contact Melissa Loiselle.
Please save the date for this event, tell your friends and help us spread the word about Mia's Miracle!
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